This morning I overheard my mom tell someone that I was dreading Brandon going out of town, naturally. My immediate thought was "No, I'm not. I'm fine." Then the rest of my day happened.
1. We went on a breakfast date, just my husband and me, to the Omelette Parlor. It was delicious and fun and we had great conversation. I just kept tearing up through the entire meal and trying so hard not to cry. Wow, emotions out of nowhere!
2. I kept trying to pick little fights with him all morning. I wasn't intentionally doing it, but when I think about it now, it makes a lot of sense. It's harder to miss someone when you're mad at them.
3. As I was driving him to the airport, I was very quiet (which is not really like me). I knew he would think something was wrong or I was mad. Then, I began to see with clarity how, by giving into selfishness and self-pity, I could actually make him feel guilty about going, deflate his excitement and ruin the day he'd been looking forward to for months. This is not how this was supposed to go.
So, I made an effort to pull myself together, say a sincere goodbye and be joyful for my husband. We talked on the phone four times before he got on his overseas flight, and every time I told him how much I missed him and loved him. Sometimes it's the simplest ways that the enemy attempts to use us for one another's discouragement, rather than what God intends to be an opportunity for a holy experience. In the end, I'm grateful that I'm sad the hubs is going away. If it didn't bother me, that's when I would really be worried...
You know the episode of Friends when Chandler and Ross are SO excited that Gandalf is coming to town? Then, he gets stuck in Chicago and they say "Man, Chicago is so lucky." At about 3:30 tomorrow morning, London will be so lucky, because Brandon will be there. Then, Johannesburg-Livingstone-New Day Orphanage. Then, in 12 days, Colorado Springs and my boys and I will be the lucky ones because our Knight in Shining Armor will be home. Can't wait.
Showing posts with label Zambia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Zambia. Show all posts
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Sunday, June 17, 2012
Deepened Faith in Zambia
Preparing for our mission trip to Zambia to work at New Day Orphanage was an interesting experience for me. It had been 4 years since my last mission trip. This would be the first mission trip with Brandon since we've been married (we were dating when we went to Thailand in 2008). It was difficult to know what to expect and how to prepare, not only what to pack but mentally and spiritually as well. I was a little unsure of how God would use me on this trip. The majority of our team consisted of men, and they had a mission and a plan. They were going to build an awesome playground for the kids at the orphanage. They did, and it was incredible!
My experience in Zambia was quite different from theirs, as well as varied in itself, but amazing nonetheless. Darbi had asked Beth and me to help with some of the classes/tutorials throughout the week. That was great with me, because it meant that I got to spend time with these precious children. Not only that, but I got to be in a classroom again after years of being out of that environment. It was truly a joy to work with the children during these classes where we assisted with reading to them and helping them learn new skills. I spent most of my time with the little ones and they just melted my heart from day 1.
Another thing I was able to do on one of my days there was to attend two women's bible studies. One was at the orphanage and another was at a close-by village. At the second one I attended, I was asked to share with the women a little bit about myself. I told them about being a pastor's wife and how I had come to Zambia with our church. Then, I talked about my job in Lubbock and how we help women who are pregnant. They kept asking for more details about that and so I shared as truthfully as I could. There was one girl who was translating for me as I spoke. At one point, she stopped and asked "What does it mean 'to abort'?" I explained what it meant and she became quiet. As we drove back to the orphanage after the bible study, the missionary shared with me that the girl who was translating had an abortion last month. As heartbroken as I was for her, I know that my being there and sharing biblical truth with her on this subject was a divine appointment that I am grateful for, and I continue to pray for this young woman and the others in that area who have experienced the same thing.
Two afternoons, a group of us went to do survey work in nearby villages. The purpose of this work is to find out what belief systems are present there and if the people there would be open and ready to beginning a bible study and possibly even planting a church. We split into groups of 3, and I went with Wes (a missionary) and one of the Hilda (one of the Zambian women) on the first day. That day we only went to 2 villages, but we spend a lot of time there. We asked them questions about whether or not they attend church and who they believe Jesus is. I participated, but I also marveled in watching Wes and Hilda passionately share the Gospel with the eager Zambian people. The next day I went with Wes and Mulanga (one of the Zambian men). We walked a lot and had the opportunity to visit several different villages. Again, we were able to share the truth of God's Word and salvation with many. They were eager to hear and asked us to return so they could learn more. On these two afternoons, there were about 15 people who accepted Christ. God is good!
Once Darbi found out that I had studied Special Education in my undergrad experience, she asked me if I would be willing to speak to the teachers about some strategies for working with kids who are struggling. Although it had been quite some time since I had taught special education and I was a little bit intimidated, I agreed. On Saturday, I met with some of the American and Zambian teachers and we discussed some ideas and some problems they were encountering. It was really neat how God provided insight and answers and suggestions throughout this time we had together. It was such a privilege and honor to work with these teachers who had more experience than I did, yet they valued my opinions.
In addition to all of these wonderful aspects of the trip where I had opportunities to join God where He was working, He provided unique situations that related to my personal experience and areas where I could use the gifts and abilities He has given me to meet needs. He is so faithful! I also had some down time when I could get into His Word and pray and journal a lot and it was such a great time for me to just have time with the Lord.
I had the blessing to get to know Margaret, who is the house mom for the girls orphan home. She has such a sweet spirit and generous heart. Brandon and I prayed about it and decided to sponsor Margaret. I don't know who was more excited, us or her!
Our last couple of days in Zambia were spent as tourists. We went on a safari in Botswana, where half of the day was spent on a boat and half on a game drive in a jeep. While on the boat, we saw hippos and crocodiles. On the game drive we watched female lions hunting (literally next to the jeep), giraffes, elephants, kudu, sabels and buffalo. It was incredible to see all of this wildlife God created--as He created them--in the wild. The last day, we went to Victoria Falls and I suddenly understood why it was one of the 7 Wonders of the World. The power of the waterfall we saw made the huge, powerful lion we had seen the day before look like a kitty cat. There wasn't a view we saw where we could see the whole thing, because it's 2 miles wide. The people I was with had seen in 2 times before, and they stood there with me in absolute awe, as if it was their first time to see it. It was a perfect ending to a great trip, as I was able to reflect on God's power, grace, goodness and faithfulness.

[Sorry there aren't more pictures of the animals or the Falls. By the time we got to Livingstone, my camera battery was almost dead from taking pictures at the orphanage all week. Some others got pictures, so when I get them, I will add them here.]
My experience in Zambia was quite different from theirs, as well as varied in itself, but amazing nonetheless. Darbi had asked Beth and me to help with some of the classes/tutorials throughout the week. That was great with me, because it meant that I got to spend time with these precious children. Not only that, but I got to be in a classroom again after years of being out of that environment. It was truly a joy to work with the children during these classes where we assisted with reading to them and helping them learn new skills. I spent most of my time with the little ones and they just melted my heart from day 1.
Another thing I was able to do on one of my days there was to attend two women's bible studies. One was at the orphanage and another was at a close-by village. At the second one I attended, I was asked to share with the women a little bit about myself. I told them about being a pastor's wife and how I had come to Zambia with our church. Then, I talked about my job in Lubbock and how we help women who are pregnant. They kept asking for more details about that and so I shared as truthfully as I could. There was one girl who was translating for me as I spoke. At one point, she stopped and asked "What does it mean 'to abort'?" I explained what it meant and she became quiet. As we drove back to the orphanage after the bible study, the missionary shared with me that the girl who was translating had an abortion last month. As heartbroken as I was for her, I know that my being there and sharing biblical truth with her on this subject was a divine appointment that I am grateful for, and I continue to pray for this young woman and the others in that area who have experienced the same thing.
Two afternoons, a group of us went to do survey work in nearby villages. The purpose of this work is to find out what belief systems are present there and if the people there would be open and ready to beginning a bible study and possibly even planting a church. We split into groups of 3, and I went with Wes (a missionary) and one of the Hilda (one of the Zambian women) on the first day. That day we only went to 2 villages, but we spend a lot of time there. We asked them questions about whether or not they attend church and who they believe Jesus is. I participated, but I also marveled in watching Wes and Hilda passionately share the Gospel with the eager Zambian people. The next day I went with Wes and Mulanga (one of the Zambian men). We walked a lot and had the opportunity to visit several different villages. Again, we were able to share the truth of God's Word and salvation with many. They were eager to hear and asked us to return so they could learn more. On these two afternoons, there were about 15 people who accepted Christ. God is good!
| Abigail sharing about leading people to Christ that afternoon |
In addition to all of these wonderful aspects of the trip where I had opportunities to join God where He was working, He provided unique situations that related to my personal experience and areas where I could use the gifts and abilities He has given me to meet needs. He is so faithful! I also had some down time when I could get into His Word and pray and journal a lot and it was such a great time for me to just have time with the Lord.
| Brandon preaching on Sunday |
I had the blessing to get to know Margaret, who is the house mom for the girls orphan home. She has such a sweet spirit and generous heart. Brandon and I prayed about it and decided to sponsor Margaret. I don't know who was more excited, us or her!
| Brandon & Annie with Margaret |
[Sorry there aren't more pictures of the animals or the Falls. By the time we got to Livingstone, my camera battery was almost dead from taking pictures at the orphanage all week. Some others got pictures, so when I get them, I will add them here.]
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