If I Belittle. . .

This is from a devotional book for women entitled: a gentle spirit. I have gone through this book off and on for about 8 years now. It is an incredible book of devotions and daily wisdom for women written by some amazing women of faith. It always challenges me to look at myself and ask the hard questions, prod the painful and weak areas of my soul that need work. Maybe that's why it's been an "off and on" process for so many years now. It's not always easy or enjoyable, but it is definitely always needed. This is what I read from it tonight, by Amy Carmichael.

[Jesus said], Anyone who says [to his brother or sister], 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire. Matthew 5:22

If, in any way, I belittle those who I am called to serve. . .

if I talk of their weak points in contrast, perhaps, with what I think of as my stronger points. . .

if I adopt a superior attitude, forgetting to consider the wisdom of the voice that asks me, inwardly, "Who made you different from the one you are criticizing--and what do you have that you have not been given?"

if I can easily discuss the shortcomings of the sins of any man or woman. . .

if I can speak in an offhanded way, even of a child's wrongdoing...then I know nothing of Calvary love.

My Father, how often do my words "singe" someone else? (and how much time do I spend thinking critically about another--so that nothing but words that singe come out?) Today, Lord, work in me. Change the thought-life in me when I strip others of dignity. . .or reduce them point by point. . .in order to build myself up.

And give me your voice, to speak words of value. . . admiration. . . encouragement. . . compassion. . . true kindness.

Needless to say, after reading this I had to repent and examine my heart and my thoughts and words just from today.